When I say kneel, you say-?

Switch girl, living in Baltimore, sighing over submissive boys I haven't met yet. I have gotten progressively gayer. Kink critical. No, you may not call me mistress.

fauxcyborg:

"real bdsm doesn’t involve abuse"

that sure is a neat way to deflect criticism and make abusers in your community someone else’s problems while presenting yourselves as a united happy family who looks out for each other :)

transqueerkink:

Sketch of a tentacle-endowed man having fun with a helpless boy. I hope you all like it!

transqueerkink:

Sketch of a tentacle-endowed man having fun with a helpless boy. I hope you all like it!

Fetishes are only ethical when they involve mutual consent and when everyone has the ability to step back. That’s not possible with racial fetishes, which is why they shouldn’t be tolerated in the fetish community or anywhere else. This isn’t about ‘preference’ or things that are out of your control. This is about race, history, culture, and a refusal to acknowledge your role in the complex systems used to maintain our social structure. As long as it’s okay to objectify women on the basis of their race, women of colour will never be equal.