Anonymous asked: When women insult feminized men for being feminine it actually really, really makes me mad. It's like "You're a woman in power. Your beauty has become a weapon. You're feminine. You're in high heels, you're wearing make-up. How can you use that as something powerful and at the same time use it to insult someone?" I hate it when femininity is used as an insult, either to woman, gay men, or feminized men.
I definately get what you are saying and I agree, but this was in the context of a fetish scene, so… Idk. I don’t share the fetish, but it intersects with part of my interests…. I feel like there are probably people who understand the problems surrounding feminization as humiliation, but who still enjoy it, because… I’m into stuff I find problematic…its possible to do.